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My Mother’s Death Triggered the Bulk of My Deconstruction Journey
My mother’s death triggered the bulk of my deconstruction.
It was a long time ago now. 12-13 years. I was attending a Pentecostal church while she was sick and dying. I changed churches to attend a grace-based church just 4 months before she died, and the Pastor (Santo …
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I FEEL LIKE GIVING UP
I have wanted to be a writer since I was nine years old.
That’s a long time.
Thirty-two years to be exact.
I started writing my first novel when I was eleven. That one was never completed. But by the time I was eighteen (2000/2001), I had written two substantial …
Exploring Monogamy
As you deconstruct things like purity culture, have you found yourself questioning whether God actually designed us to be monogamous? “Asking for a friend.” Just kidding, I’m asking for myself, but I am not rejecting monogamy, I am simply questioning.
I celebrated my …
Does everything happen for a reason?
Do you think that everything happens for a reason? A meaningful reason?
Or do you think that some things happen for no particular reason, other than that that is how circumstances played out—a kind of circumstantial reason, but not so much a purposeful …